Creating a Joint Vision Board: Transform your individual resolutions into shared dreams and goals
You might think vision boards are just another trendy self-help gimmick, but research shows that visual goal-setting activates both the emotional and logical parts of our brains, making us 42% more likely to achieve our objectives.
Building Your Dreams: Like Architects of Your Shared Future
Michelle and I have decided to do a vision board for the new year. We’ve never done this before, so the exercise is new and interesting.
Before I launch into this topic, let me make something clear. I do not think vision boards are magic. Nor do I believe they are demonic new age exercises that call up evil spirits. I know some people do believe. I do not.
I do believe they help you focus your attention on the things that matter; your goals, dreams, and vision for the future. Hence, a vision board.
For us, we want to get very clear on what we want to accomplish in this new year. This (we believe) will help us clarify our dreams and goals.
With that said, let’s dig in.
Laying the Blueprint for Vision Board Success
Just as master architects meticulously prepare their workspace before drafting a groundbreaking design, creating a joint vision board requires thoughtful preparation and the right environment.
The foundation of your shared dream-building experience starts with intentional setup and careful attention to detail.
- Select a peaceful weekend morning when both partners feel energized and creative, free from daily distractions and deadlines
- Transform your space into a creative sanctuary with comfortable seating, ample flat surface area, and natural lighting
- Stock up on high-quality materials including diverse magazines, personal photos, colorful markers, and a sturdy board as your canvas
- Create an inspiring atmosphere with soft background music, aromatic candles, and light refreshments to fuel your creative journey
Think of this preparation phase as laying the cornerstone of a magnificent building – every detail matters.
The right environment will naturally encourage open dialogue and creative expression, setting the stage for a transformative experience where two individual visions merge into one powerful shared dream.
From “Me First” to “We’re In This Together”: Your Guide to Shared Dreams
Just as a master chef combines distinct ingredients to create a mouth-watering masterpiece, you’re about to blend two unique life visions into one beautiful shared journey.
You can’t expect instant perfection – and that’s totally okay! Think of it like learning to dance together: sometimes you’ll step on each other’s toes, but with practice, you’ll find your rhythm.
You’re commencing on something bigger than just combining calendars and bank accounts. It’s about weaving together two separate stories into one epic adventure. And sure, Alexander Graham Bell didn’t have the luxury of texting “u up?” to his beloved (imagine that!), but you’ve got modern tools and ancient wisdom on your side.
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Here’s what you’ll discover as you blend your dreams:
- The electric spark when your career aspirations complement each other perfectly
- Those quiet Sunday mornings when your different hobbies somehow make perfect sense together
- The unexpected joy of compromising on vacation destinations that satisfy both your wanderlust
- The surprising strength you’ll find in supporting each other’s individual goals
- Those magical moments when your different perspectives create solutions neither of you could’ve reached alone
Remember, you’re not erasing your individual dreams – you’re creating something richer, deeper, and more exciting together. It’s like upgrading from solo performers to a dynamic duo. You’ll hit some wrong notes along the way, but that’s just part of composing your shared symphony.
So take a deep breath. You’re about to write one incredible story together.
Breaking Down the Dream Merge
You’ll want to start by flying solo – and that’s totally okay! Think of it like preparing your ingredients before cooking a masterpiece meal. First, you need quality individual components.
- Take some “me time” to explore what makes your heart race
- Create your judgment-free zone for sharing those wild aspirations
- Hunt for those magical overlap points where both dreams click
Getting Real with the Process
You’re probably wondering, “How do I actually do this?” Well, it’s like building the world’s coolest playlist – you’ve got to mix your favorite tracks with your partner’s until you create something that rocks for both of you.
The Secret Sauce for Success:
- Schedule dedicated dream-sharing sessions (maybe over tacos – everything’s better with tacos)
- Use “yes, and…” instead of “but” when discussing each other’s hopes
- Draw your visions – literally! Get artistic, even if you think you can’t draw
The Breakthrough Moment
When you’re doing it right, you’ll feel it. It’s like suddenly discovering you’ve been using two pieces of the same map. Your individual paths start making more sense together than they ever did apart.
Remember, you’re not erasing your personal dreams – you’re expanding them. Think of it as upgrading from solo travel to having an awesome adventure buddy. Your individual dreams aren’t disappearing; they’re getting a power-up!
The Art of Making Dreams Real: Your Couple’s Vision Guide
You’re about to turn those fuzzy dreams into crystal-clear reality – and it’s way cooler than it sounds! Think of it like building your dream house, except instead of bricks, you’re using hopes and plans. Let’s plunge into how you can make this happen.
Finding Your Sweet Spots
- Start by dividing your board into zones (just like a teen’s perfectly organized backpack)
- Mix personal goals with shared dreams – they should flow together like a playlist
- Keep it flexible, like your favorite stretchy jeans
Creating Your Dream Map
Picture yourself as an explorer charting new territory. You wouldn’t just wander aimlessly, right? Same goes for your vision board! Set up clear markers that’ll show you’re moving forward, like:
- Monthly check-ins (think of them as level-ups in a video game)
- Seasonal goal reviews (just like updating your wardrobe)
- Annual big-picture looks (similar to scrolling through your year’s worth of photos)
3. Picking Your Platform
Here’s where it gets interesting – you’ve got options! Going digital is like having your dreams in your pocket 24/7. Apps and online boards are perfect if you’re always on your phone anyway. But maybe you’re more old-school? A physical board can be like having your own personal billboard of awesome right in your space.
Pro tip: Your vision board should be as alive as your TikTok feed – always changing, always growing. Don’t let it gather dust like last year’s textbooks! Keep it fresh, keep it real, and most importantly, keep it visible. After all, what’s the point of a roadmap if you never look at it?
Remember: You’re not just making a pretty collage – you’re building your future’s blueprint. Make it count!
Keep the Spark Alive: Nurturing Your Shared Dreams into Reality
Research shows that couples who regularly review their vision boards together are 65% more likely to achieve their shared goals compared to those who create them and forget them.
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Let’s face it – a vision board isn’t a “set it and forget it” kind of thing. It’s more like a garden that needs constant tending.
- Schedule consistent “Vision Check-ins” – pick a specific day each month (like the first Sunday) to review progress and realign your shared dreams
- Create a “Wins Journal” to document even the tiniest victories – that first $100 saved toward your dream house or completing week one of your couple’s workout plan
- Host quarterly “Dream Expansion Sessions” where you brainstorm new aspirations and refresh stale goals that no longer serve your shared purpose
- Design celebration rituals that match your personalities – maybe it’s a fancy dinner out when you hit major milestones, or a simple high-five and ice cream date for smaller wins
Think of your vision board as a living, breathing roadmap to your future together. Just like your relationship evolves, your shared dreams will too.
Sometimes goals need tweaking, sometimes they need complete overhauls – and that’s totally normal. The key is staying connected through the process, making adjustments together, and keeping that shared excitement alive.
Remember – your vision board isn’t just pretty pictures on a wall. It’s the physical representation of your combined hopes and dreams. Treat it that way. Give it the attention it deserves, and watch as those dreams transform into your shared reality.
Sync Your Dreams: Why Vision Boarding with Your Partner Is Like Building a GPS for Your Future
You know that feeling when you and your bestie finish each other’s sentences? That’s exactly what joint vision boarding does for couples – except instead of sentences, you’re completing each other’s dreams.
Think of it like that time NASA needed two space stations to sync up perfectly to dock in orbit. One slight misalignment and boom – mission failed. Your relationship’s pretty much the same way.
Vision boarding together isn’t just about pasting pretty pictures on cardboard. It’s your relationship’s secret weapon for getting on the same page – literally and figuratively.
I read about one couple who started a vision board. They discovered they both secretly wanted to open a beachside café. Now they’re six months into planning their dream business!
Here’s why you’ll want to grab those magazines and start cutting:
- It’s like having a relationship crystal ball – you get to peek into each other’s future hopes and actually plan for them together
- Works better than couple’s therapy (sometimes!) because you’re focusing on positive goals instead of problems
- Creates your own accountability squad – way harder to slack off on your dreams when your partner’s checking in
- Turns “my goals” into “our goals,” making your relationship feel like a proper team sport
When you’re both pointing your compass in the same direction, you’re not just partners – you’re co-pilots on this wild journey called life. And let’s be real, it’s way more fun to chase dreams with your favorite person than to do it solo.
From Good Intentions to Great Results: Making Your Follow-through Strategy Work
Many couples fail because they never get started. Others fail because they stop in the middle. In the past, I’ve done both. But there are a few tricks to use to keep you moving forward.
Just like a GPS recalculating your route when you take a wrong turn, a solid follow-through strategy keeps you headed in the right direction.
Think of weekly check-ins as your personal pit stops in this grand Formula 1 race of life. They’re not just boring status updates – they’re your reality checks that prevent you from pulling a Titanic and hitting unexpected icebergs along the way.
Progress documentation? It’s like your fitness tracker, but for goals. You wouldn’t know if you’re crushing your step count without checking the numbers, right? Same principle here. Document everything – the wins, the fails, and those weird moments in between.
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- Make your weekly check-ins as routine as checking your social media (we know you do that at least 20 times a day)
- Create a progress journal that’s more entertaining than your old middle school diary
- Break down action steps smaller than your little brother’s attention span
- Set up accountability partners who won’t let you slack off like that one gym buddy who actually shows up
- Use reminder apps that are more persistent than your mom asking about your future plans
Action step assignments are your game plan – like a recipe for success, minus the complicated cooking instructions.
Break them down into bite-sized pieces that even a sleep-deprived teenager could handle. Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day, and your goals won’t be achieved by staring at your phone waiting for motivation to hit.
Imagine yourself as the protagonist in your own success story – but instead of waiting for a magical mentor, you’re taking charge of your own journey. Now get out there and start tracking!