The Four Traps…
Before You Can Save Your Marriage You Need To Get Off The Hamster Wheel And Stop Believing The Marriage Myths
There are four things that will keep you running in circles.
So in order to get on the right track and actually make progress, you need to get off the wheel. Stop believing the lies. The Myths.
Dr. Baucom goes into detail on these myths so you can get your marriage on the right track. Miss this, and you take the wrong steps. You can actually do the right thing at the wrong time and put your marriage at further risk. So this is vital.
Here’s two of the things Dr. Baucom address…
Myth #1: You Just Need More Communication Skills
The majority of marriage books out there simply deal with learning to communicate better.
Sure, we all need to be able to communicate better, but this is NOT the biggest issue in your marriage. Believe it or not there are ‘bigger fish to fry.’ Only focusing on this will keep you on the never ending wheel or trying harder and harder.
Myth #2: Time Heals All Wounds
Boy… is this one wrong! Time only does what we allow it to do.
If you don’t put the right steps together to heal the marriage, all time will do is destroy it.
Time only magnifies the steps we take. Take the right steps and time will push you forward to a better marriage. BUT, take the wrong steps and time will kick you, knock you down and then spit in your face.
This is why it is so vital to take the right steps.
That’s just two of the four Dr. Baucom talks about. And he nails it. That’s why it’s so important to get your hands on his material. But more about that in a bit.
You may be asking, ‘How do I know this stuff works?’
The track record on this system is strong. It’s worked for countless others.
Here’s just a few testimonies…
My relationship is much better…
For the record, let me just say that your guide is the most sensible, real, self help book of any kind that I have ever read. These things that you talk about in your book are real, and so simple – THEY JUST MAKE SENSE. My relationship with my husband has gotten so much better! Thank you, thank you thank you.
He actually left…
I’m 41 years old and my husband has recently told me that he wanted out of the marriage and he actually left a few days later, after 21 years of marriage. After the initial shock wore off and I was able to think straight, I purchased your system. I was able to persuade him to give me and the marriage another chance. I had to wing it with only your strategies in my head. Many, many thanks for your resources.
A dramatic turn around!
What a dramatic turn around! Our relationship is 180 degrees reversed and moving in the RIGHT direction. Thank you so much.
Worth every penny…
Firstly, I want to thank you on your great help you provided in your book.
My wife already filed for divorce before I downloaded your book, and I wanted to do anything I could to save what I could. At that stage I stumbled onto your website, and normally I don’t buy eBooks over the internet.
We were speaking, but obviously the relationship was very tense. AFter reading your book I realized what could have gone wrong.
I changed my perspective on my marriage, and after only about 1 week, she has delayed the proceedings, and is seriously reconsidering the divorce completely. She is also starting to commit to this marriage.
If this can happen in my marriage in only 1 week, I can only imagine what it can mean to others. It was worth every penny.
Back To Greg And Kelly
Kelly was the one to initiate the process in their relationship. Greg was still leaning toward divorce. But Kelly wanted to try one last time to turn it around.
Kelly found Dr. Baucom’s program online. She order the material and began to digest it and take some practical steps to move forward.
Here’s what Dr. Baucom said about them…
(Kelly) found me on the Internet, downloaded Save the Marriage and began the process of saving the marriage…by herself. Greg was still bent on a divorce, but Kelly still had hope and took action. Fairly quickly, Greg was less insistent on divorce, but still assumed it was their only option. Eventually, he agreed to spend that hour with me, in person…leaving their divorce attorneys waiting.