Forgiveness is something you offer. It is not a right the other person possesses; it is a gift from you. Yet, it’s a gift you should give. Maybe you’ve been hurt. Disappointed. Neglected. My wife and I talk to couples on a regular basis who have hurt each other. MIsdirected words. Unintentional oversight. Blatant neglect. […]
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8 Things You Can Do Every Day For Your Marriage
It’s not the big things that make a marriage great. It’s the small things we do on a daily basis. Couples often commit two sins against their marriage: 1) They wait for inspiration to hit before they really decide to work on their marriage. This can be detrimental to your relationship for several reasons. I […]
Why You Should Not Be Inspired To Make Your Marriage Better
Inspiration is worthless. If you are waiting to feel inspired so you can move forward in your marriage, you are doomed to fail. Angel and Miriam Angel and Miriam have been together since they were in high school. They dated their junior and senior year. Outside of a short breakup during college, they have been […]
Questions to Deepen Intimacy: How a Series of Questions Can Help You Fall in Love Again!
In 1996 psychologist Arthur Aron conducted a study to see if he could get to strangers to fall in love by having them discuss 36 specific questions. He succeeded. His study is now legendary in the world of relationship psychology. The study doesn’t stop there though. Recently TEDxSydney repeated that famous study. They too were […]
Yoga and Marriage: 5 Ways Yoga Can Improve Your Relationship
Can yoga help your marriage? If so, how? Many medical and psychology professionals believe yoga has a place in our approach to total wholeness. Not only does it aid in physical health, but it can also improve your ability to connect with your spouse and enhance your married life. Let’s start with a brief overview […]
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Questions to Deepen Intimacy: How a Series of Questions Can Help You Fall in Love Again!
In 1996 psychologist Arthur Aron conducted a study to see if he could get to strangers to fall in love by having them discuss 36 specific questions. He succeeded. His study is now legendary in the world of relationship psychology. The study doesn’t stop there though. Recently TEDxSydney repeated that famous study. They too were […]
Yoga and Marriage: 5 Ways Yoga Can Improve Your Relationship
Can yoga help your marriage? If so, how? Many medical and psychology professionals believe yoga has a place in our approach to total wholeness. Not only does it aid in physical health, but it can also improve your ability to connect with your spouse and enhance your married life. Let’s start with a brief overview […]
Freedom From Past Baggage That Destroys Your Relationship
I love cop shows and movies. Mysteries. Whodunnits. One of my favorite movies is about a bank robbery. It had twists and turns throughout. Misdirection at every scene. In the end, it was a guy who worked at the bank who planned the whole thing. He was the mastermind. It was an inside job. Think […]
Letting Go of the Baggage In Your Life and Marriage
One summer when my children were younger, we spent a week or so at the beach. It was one of our favorite vacation destinations. When we first arrived we were excited to hit the ocean and play in the sand. The first thing we did was get our rafts, surf boards and gear so we […]
How To Deal With Past Baggage To Keep Your Marriage Safe
Dealing With Past Baggage Series Is your past baggage ruining your relationships? Do you find yourself overreacting when things go wrong? Ever do something (or say something) and wonder ‘where did that come from’? If so, your past is probably controlling your future. Cila’s Story Cila grew up with a verbally abusive, critical father. When […]
5 Factors Affecting Your Sex Life
Is your sex life everything you want it to be? If not, it may be the junk in your head (and heart) that keeps it from being great. Ashley and Jason Ashley and Jason are an average couple. They love each other. They’ve been together for over 20 years. Recently Jason damaged their relationship by […]
Making Your Marriage a Priority: A 5 Step Blueprint
Is your marriage a priority? THE priority? If not, why? I know it’s a tough (and direct) question. My guess is that it’s not because you don’t want it to be. It is more likely because you don’t know who to make a priority. Laying a Priority Foundation When I was in High School my […]
9 Reasons Why Sex is Important in Marriage Part 2
Many couples struggle with intimacy in marriage. For some it’s an issue of trust. Others just let life get in the way. Either way, romance diminishes and intimacy fades. It doesn’t have to be that way. In this article I address the final 5 reasons sexual intimacy can be the bridge to a deeper, more […]
9 Reasons Why Sex In Marriage Is Important Part 1
Is Sex Important in a Marriage relationship? Is sex even necessary? If it’s important, why? Kyle and Lindsey I met Kyle and Lindsey (not there real names) a few years ago. Most of the couples I talk with have minor problems. Kyle and Lindsey were no different. Lindsey felt disconnected. Kyle frustrated. The more we […]
Common Marriage Problems After 10 Years Part 2
It’s a myth that marriage has to get tough after 10 years. I’ve heard it put many ways… The honeymoon is over after 10 years (5, 3 or even 1 year). Things are never the same after kids. You just grow apart after years of marriage. It’s all wrong. False. And deadly. It’s amazing how […]