This is part of a mini-series called, Unfaithful. In these articles we are dealing primarily with men who experienced spousal infidelity. At some point following an affair, you have to know how to deal with an unfaithful wife. This article lays out 5 principles you should know and follow to make sure you successfully deal […]
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How To Recover Emotionally From An Unfaithful Wife: 6 Keys You Need To Know
The pain of infidelity is similar to death. You need help to heal. Here are six keys to help you know how to recover emotionally from an unfaithful wife. There is perhaps nothing more painful than walking through and experience with an unfaithful wife. Those who have experienced it say it ranks up there with […]
How To Make A Woman Feel Loved and Secure: 6 Practical Things You Can Do Now
In this article discuss 6 reasons on how to make a woman feel loved and secure. These are two qualities every person looks for in a secure, healthy relationship. Marriage is a two-way street. While we are not fully responsible for our spouses happiness, we do contribute to their general sense of well-being. Sure, we […]
Are My Marriage Problems My Fault? Maybe It Is Your Fault!
When things get sideways in our relationship, it’s important to ask: Are my marriage problems my fault? It’s not about ‘falling on the sword’ or abdicating our responsibility to be honest. It’s about facing hard facts with candid evaluation. As humans, we love to place blame. In today’s hot political climate, it has become a […]
Don’t Take Your Spouse For Granted: Recognize The Genius In Your Relationship
Don’t take your spouse for granted. Instead, find the genius in them. In this article you will discover how. But first a story… In January of 2007 Joshua Bell accepted a challenge. Josh is one of the world’s premier violinist. He is world-renowned and commands somewhere in the neighborhood of a whopping $1,000 a minute […]
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How To Get Clarity In A Relationship
How to get clarity in a relationship is not a complicated process. But it takes emotional investment and work. We’ll show you how to build the relationship you desire using basic principles used by personal development guru’s to help people set goals. But first a story… Jon Dykstra is an internet marketer that I follow. […]
A Tale Of People With No Elbows
What is true happiness in a relationship? How can we be happy in our marriage? How can you find true happiness? How to find true love and happiness? These questions are common. They reveal a deep desire within us to life a life of meaning, joy, and fulfillment. Yet, happiness often seems elusive. Especially happiness […]
How To Recognize And Deal With Disrespect In A Relationship
This is part of a series on Common Marriage Issues where we answer, ‘What are some of the most common problems in marriage?’ In this installment we deal with disrespect in a relationship. “When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as if they […]
What Are The Most Important Things In A Marriage?
What are the most important things in a marriage? Is it time together? Sex? Learning how to fight properly? The list of important things is endless. So let’s boil it down to four essential things. But first a little story. Well, not really a story, more of an illustration. Which car would you buy? I […]
The Marriage Wheel: How To Set Healthy Relationship Priorities
We use a lot of word pictures (mental images) to explain various concepts of marriage. I’m sure you are familiar with many of them. We will talk about several below. Our favorite is the marriage wheel. Word pictures help us paint an image of a concept so our minds can understand it. We think in […]
How To Have A Great Marriage? 3 Surprising Factors
Most couples want to know how to have a great marriage. There are many factors that go in to creating a healthy relationship, but one that is often overlooked is realizing it is a process, and you must enjoy it. Ann Handley tells an interesting story in one of her emails (dated 9/27/2020). She titles […]
How To Make A Marriage Better: Practice, Man, Practice
You want to know how to make a marriage better? Answer: Practice! Can You Really Practice To Make Your Marriage Better? Is marriage practice a thing? Can you really practice to make your relationship better? If so, what does that even look like? We tackle the subject of ‘practicing your marriage’ to make it better. […]
The Emotional Bank Account: Are You Making Deposits Into Your Spouses Account?
Are You Investing In Your Spouses Emotional Bank Account? You Making The Right Deposits? The idea of emotional bank accounts has been around for a long time. It’s a way of viewing relationships that stresses the need to bring value to other people instead of extracting from them. Michelle and I recently watched ‘Marriage Story’ […]
What Causes Marriage Problems? 5 Root Causes that May Surprise You
What causes marriage problems? It’s easy to focus on symptoms and avoid the root causes. In this article we discuss four root causes that often surprise (and even anger) couples. Years ago I transplanted some shrubs from Alabama to Tennessee. My dad gave them to me and told me precise steps on how to make […]
My Husband Doesn’t Listen to my Needs. What Can I Do?
We often hear the complaint, “My husband doesn’t listen to my needs.” In this article, we discuss why husbands don’t listen and how you can get him to pay attention to your feelings and needs. Did you see this? Flights to nowhere. It’s a thing now. You can read about here. Evidently a few airlines […]
Marriage Transitions Series: Parents Dealing With The Loss of a Child
There are many transitions in marriage. Parents dealing with the loss of a child is perhaps the worst. Read Frank and Cheryl’s story to find hope. How Losing a Child Affects Your Marriage There are many transitions in marriage. One that is never expected is the loss of a child. It seems unnatural and out […]
How To Make Marriage Work When You Have Nothing In Common With Spouse
Is it possible to enjoy marriage when you have nothing in common with spouse? Yes. But it takes work and understanding the real essence of compatibility. In this article we discuss those differences and how to connect with a spouse that’s different from you. Is it possible to enjoy marriage when you have nothing in […]
Common Signs of Disrespect in Marriage: 20 Indicators You Might Not Have Considered
Disrespect is deadly for any relationship. Especially in marriage where respect should be one of the cornerstones and building blocks of a healthy relationship. Here are 20 common signs of disrespect that could be eroding your intimacy and trust. Disrespect is deadly for any relationship. Especially in marriage where respect should be one of the […]
What Should You Do When You’re Married To A Spouse With A Victim Mentality?
There is a difference in someone who is truly a victim and someone with a victim mentality. What should you do when you’re married to a spouse with a victim mentality? The key is to balance loving them well, and putting boundaries around you relationship. In this article we will look at the signs and […]
The Dangers of Fantasizing in Marriage
The dangers of fantasizing in marriage have been studied, debated and explored for centuries. Fantasizing is a hotly debated topic. Is it really that dangerous? Is there a safe fantasy that is not destructive to your relationship? In this article, we will tackle these questions. The Story of John and Janet John and Janet had […]
Can The Love Dare Fix A Relationship?
Can the Love Dare fix a relationship? Is it still useful if your marriage needs help? We explore the ins-and-outs of this program to find out if it is still helpful for couples. What Happened To Ahsley Ashley and her boyfriend are planning on getting married. She wanted to make sure they started on the […]
Marriage Transitions Series: How To Overcome Empty Nest Syndrome
How To Overcome Empty Nest Syndrome: Here are five things you can do to rebuild your relationship after the kids are gone. Transitions in life happen. Things change. Which impacts our relationship. One of the greatest struggles in marriage is when kids grow up, leave home, and the nest is empty. For most parents, you’ve […]
What Does God Want Me To Do When My Husband Wants A Divorce?
Alice asks: What does God want me to do when my husband wants a divorce? There are two things she needs to focus on. Attitudes and Actions. What she needs to do is determined by the uniqueness of her situation and the ‘crisis stage’ of her marriage. Actions are usually what people focus on; they […]
How Can A Husband Help During Pregnancy?
How can a husband help during pregnancy? It should be the greatest event of your marriage yet often its not. Here’s how hubby can help. As a young father-to-be, I had no idea what to expect. I knew my future (life) would change when my first child was born. I prepared myself for being a […]
Christian Books on Blended Families: 5 Books You Might Have Overlooked
Blended families can be challenging. Especially when you desire to honor God and create a positive environment for everyone involved. Here are our recommendations on Christian books on blended families. These are 5 books you might have not considered. Our Blended Family Journey My wife and I were married in June 2011. We both came […]