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How to Make Your Wife Fall In Love With YOu

How To Make Your Wife Fall In Love With You

If you’re thinking that finding the right formula for how to make your wife fall in love with you may be just as simple as following a diet plan, think again. Because what a man eats might affect his body, but the mind is a very different matter. When it comes to the mysteries of […]

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The Power of the Subconscious Mind About Marriage: 7 Steps To Take To Reprogram Your Marriage

Most couples do not realize how subconscious limiting beliefs affect your marriage. Here are 7 things you can do to reprogram your marriage by changing the limiting beliefs that sabotage your relationship. Ever heard of the Cocktail Party Effect? It goes like this. You are at a cocktail party with friends. You soon find yourself […]

How To Help A Friend In An Emotionally Abusive Marriage

How To Help A Friend In An Emotionally Abusive Marriage

It’s not easy watching someone you care about experience an abusive relationship. How do you help a friend in an emotionally abusive marriage? What’s is the best way you can offer support and direction? We explore the do’s and don’ts of dealing with people in explosive relationships. If you have a friend or family member […]

What To Do When Your Wife Is Depressed and Pushing Away From You

What To Do When Your Wife Is Depressed and Pushing Away From You

Depression can be a serious problem. It is not something to be taken lightly. What to do when your wife is depressed? Here are six things to avoid, and six things you should do to help. Depression is a very real and serious problem for many people, and if you are married to someone who […]

What Are The Reasons Behind Long Lasting Marriages

What Are The Reasons Behind Long Lasting Marriages?

A long lasting relationship is the goal of every couple that marries. Are there keys to help you create a lasting bond? What are the reasons behind long lasting marriages? We identify 13 ingredients in couples who passed the test of time in marriage. I first met Pete and Renee when they were newly weds. […]

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How to Respond When Your Wife Takes You for Granted

No one likes to be taken for granted. When happens in marriage it is not only heartbreaking; it also has long-term effects on the relationship. How do you respond when your wife takes you for granted? In this article we explore the signs and remedy for when wife takes husband for granted. A story from […]

What Does It Mean To Honor Your Spouse

What Does It Mean To Honor Your Spouse?

Treating our spouse with honor and respect is essential for a healthy relationship. But what does it mean to honor your spouse? We offer 7 tips on how to show respect and honor to your spouse. But first, let’s debunk some myths and wrong ideas about honor. We just got a new puppy. We’ve wanted […]

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What Happens When Trust is Broken in Marriage

5 Things You Need To Do When Trust is Broken in Marriage

What happens when trust is broken in marriage? What are the emotional costs? Is it possible to rebuild once trust is violated? Learn the four key elements that comprise trust and five things to do now if trust is lacking. Trust is one of the most valued commodities in a relationship. It’s that feeling of […]

When a Spouse Betrays Your Trust

When a Spouse Betrays Your Trust

Broken trust spells disaster for a marriage. When a spouse betrays your trust because of neglect, it not only damages your relationship and intimacy, it has devasting effects on you psychologically. 16 Things To Do When Trust Is Broken Because Of Neglect I recently received a call from a friend telling me he was going […]

Should You Stay In A Marriage That Lacks Trust

Should You Stay In A Marriage That Lacks Trust?

Healthy relationships can be challenging. Unhealthy ones are often very troubling. Those without trust are in a category of their own. Since trust is the necessary fabric for any relationship, should you stay in a marriage that lacks trust? Trust| Canva Pro License | AtnoYdur Getty Images A divorce is never an easy option for […]

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Man vs Woman Thinking [Funny]: 7 Videos You Will Love

Men and women think and behave differently. It’s the brunt of jokes and the highlight of comedy specials. We know we are different, so let’s celebrate it. In this article, we offer 7 videos that take a fun look at the differences in our genders. We call it, Man vs Woman Thinking [Funny]. Laughter does […]

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My Wife Makes Excuses Not To Sleep With Me and I’m Hurt About It

It is not uncommon (at some point in the marriage) for a wife to make excuses not to sleep with her husband. It can be painful to a man, so it’s important to understand why this happens. There are many reasons. Because your sex life is important, let’s explore this delicate topic. The subject of […]

Our picks of the seven best books on forgiveness in marriage

7 Best Books On Forgiveness in Marriage

Stuff happens in every relationship. It seems the closer you get to someone, the greater the potential to hurt, wound, or disappointment them. It’s one of those sticky things about relationships we wish weren’t true. These 7 best books on forgiveness in marriage will help; you rebuild after you’ve been wounded. The reality is when […]

What should I do when my husband blames me for his unhappiness?

My Husband Blames Me For His Unhappiness: 4 Things You Should Do?

What do you say to a wife who complains, ‘My husband blames me for his unhappiness.’? Are we responsible for our partners’ happiness? What role do we play, if any, in their sense of happiness? This is a sensitive subject for some women. Here are practical steps to take when you feel guilt and condemnation […]

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5 Rules To Create Habits For Successful Marriages (Free Marriage Habit Checklist)

At the beginning of a new year, it’s common to talk about goals we want to achieve for the coming 12 months. When we talk about goals, we need to include the idea of habits. Our goals are simply the result of our habits. In this article, we discuss habits for successful marriages. Habits are […]

How to change your relationship for the better

How To Change Your Relationship For The Better

Often couples get stuck in a rut – a cycle of self-defeating behavior that continues to erode their relationship. Knowing how to change your relationship for the better is not difficult. It can be challenging, but the principles are based on common sense and understanding how change takes place in our lives. The other day […]

Books When You Feel Unloved

9 Books To Read When You Feel Unloved In Your Marriage

When you feel alone, unloved or isolated in your marriage, you need to get help. In this article, we offer 9 books to read when you feel unloved in your marriage. This is a resource part of our series called, Unloved. Each of these books has something of value to add that will help you in […]

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How To Stay Happy In A Loveless Marriage: 5 Practical Things You Can Do To Reclaim Your Life

How to stay happy in a loveless marriage? In this article, you will understand your options when facing a fractured relationship and learn five things you can do to reclaim your life. This is part of our Unloved Series. Plus, check out the infographic below that outlines the 5 practical things you can do to […]

Woman who feels unloved in her marriage

When a Woman Feels Unloved

This is the first part of our series called, Unloved. It answers the question, ‘What happens when a woman feels unloved.’ Marriage is designed the be the answer to loneliness. No one enters marriage expecting to feel alone, unloved, or isolated. This is the opposite of what we desire. But what happens when our expectations are not […]

15 signs of unloving husband

15 Signs of an Unloving Husband: How To Recognize When Your Spouse Disconnects From Your Marriage

If you are in an unfulfilling relationship that’s characterized by disrespect, criticism, and lack of affection, maybe it’s time to get a true perspective of what’s going on. Here are 15 signs to help you diagnose your marriage. These signs of an unloving husband can help you understand the true state of your relationship. This […]

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How To Deal With An Unloving Husband: 5 Things To Keep In Mind

Marital satisfaction is usually measured by how loving our partner is (and how we love our partner). What happens when this love is missing? Knowing how to deal with an unloving husband (or spouse) can set the stage for either reconciliation or a continued decrease in marriage happiness. This article is part of our Unloved […]

Husband is hurt because his wife doesn't love him anymore

Wife Doesn’t Love Me But Won’t Leave: What Should I Do?

My wife doesn’t love me but won’t leave. What should I do? To know how to respond in this situation, you first have to diagnose the real issues behind her words. Do you fight for your marriage? Or do you back off? Where should your focus be? These are tough questions. In this article we […]

Couple who is discouraged because their relationship is showing signs of falling apart

21 Signs of a Relationship Falling Apart

21 signs of a relationship falling apart. No one wants to think their marriage is over. Yet the signs are almost always present. In this article, we discuss the 21 major signs of a failing relationship. Rob asks: Over the past year I’ve noticed my wife is pulling away. I know I’m not the best husband in […]

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How To Make My Marriage Happy Again: Couples Offer Practical Advice for a Happy Relationship

We asked our readers to give their best advice on how to make my marriage happy again; here is what they said. Every couple faces challenges in their relationship. Yet each couple desires to have a happy marriage. Those who succeed in navigating those issues are the ones who stay focused on what matters most, […]

Couple fighting because husband will not fight for the marriage

My Husband Doesn’t Want To Work On Our Marriage: 4 Reasons He Emotionally Detaches

If you’ve ever complained, ‘My husband doesn’t want to work on our marriage!’ We outline four emotional reasons why he doesn’t fight for the relationship, and why he disconnects. Discover these four reasons he detaches. These reasons are not emotional in the sense of ‘highly sensitive responses’ or emotional hysteria; rather we use the term emotional […]

Man refusing to fight for his marriage

Why Won’t My Husband Fight For Our Marriage? Are His Reasons Analytical or Emotional

Many women ask, ‘Why won’t my husband fight for our marriage?”  The answer is complicated but usually falls into one of two categories: Analytical reasons and Emotional reasons. In this two-part series, we will explore both. This is Part 1. Jump to Part 2 here. I don’t want this to be too ‘techy’ or ‘psyc’ heavy; my […]

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Asking For What You Want In A Relationship

Asking for what you want in a relationship is one of the keys to marriage success. Yet, it’s often uncomfortable asking for something. Especially in marriage. Below are eight tips on how to ask for what you want in your marriage. Asking for what we want in our marriage can make us feel vulnerable. Yet, […]

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Why Forgiveness Is Important In Marriage

There are many reasons why forgiveness is important in marriage. In this article, we discuss those reasons and dig deep into why forgiving others is a process and journey. Before we delve into the practical reasons forgiveness is good for the soul, it may be beneficial to talk about two basic types of forgiveness. Type […]

Are you the problem in your relationship

Are You The Problem In Your Relationship: Why It’s Healthy To Look Inside First

Many marriages have struggles.  The causes vary, so it’s important to ask: Are you the problem in your relationship?  In this article we discuss why it might be so, and what to do about it. Before we lay out the case for looking inside before blaming your spouse for your relationship issues, watch this video.  […]

7 Benefits of forgiveness in marriage

Benefits of Forgiveness In Marriage: 7 Important Things You Need To Know

There are many benefits of forgiveness in marriage.  In this article, we discuss 7 reasons, as well as the over-arching benefits of making forgiveness a habit in your relationship. This is part of the marriage forgiveness series. I recently thought about the story of the man who had gone to prison for a crime he […]

Couple hugging on a couch expressing forgiveness in marriage

Forgiveness In Marriage: Should You Forgive and Forget?

As part of the marriage forgiveness series, in this article, we will discuss the role of forgiveness in marriage; what forgiveness is, reasons to forgive, and a practical blueprint on how to forgive. Discussing forgiveness is complicated. There are many factors connected to the idea of letting go of an offense and releasing someone from […]

How to deal with an unfaithful wife

How To Deal With An Unfaithful Wife: 5 Principles to Follow

This is part of a mini-series called, Unfaithful. In these articles we are dealing primarily with men who experienced spousal infidelity.  At some point following an affair, you have to know how to deal with an unfaithful wife.  This article lays out 5 principles you should know and follow to make sure you successfully deal […]

How to recover emotionally from an unfaithful wife

How To Recover Emotionally From An Unfaithful Wife: 6 Keys You Need To Know

The pain of infidelity is similar to death. You need help to heal. Here are six keys to help you know how to recover emotionally from an unfaithful wife. There is perhaps nothing more painful than walking through and experience with an unfaithful wife.   Those who have experienced it say it ranks up there with […]

How to make a woman feel loved and secure

How To Make A Woman Feel Loved and Secure: 6 Practical Things You Can Do Now

In this article discuss 6 reasons on how to make a woman feel loved and secure. These are two qualities every person looks for in a secure, healthy relationship. Marriage is a two-way street. While we are not fully responsible for our spouses happiness, we do contribute to their general sense of well-being. Sure, we […]

Are my marriage problems my fault

Are My Marriage Problems My Fault? Maybe It Is Your Fault!

When things get sideways in our relationship, it’s important to ask:  Are my marriage problems my fault? It’s not about ‘falling on the sword’ or abdicating our responsibility to be honest.  It’s about facing hard facts with candid evaluation. As humans, we love to place blame. In today’s hot political climate, it has become a […]

Don't take your spouse for granted

Don’t Take Your Spouse For Granted: Recognize The Genius In Your Relationship

Don’t take your spouse for granted.  Instead, find the genius in them. In this article you will discover how.  But first a story… In January of 2007 Joshua Bell accepted a challenge. Josh is one of the world’s premier violinist. He is world-renowned and commands somewhere in the neighborhood of a whopping $1,000 a minute […]

Couple hugging to rebuild intimacy in marriage

Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage: 6 Practical Steps To Take

Intimacy and sexual connection in marriage is esential for a healthy relationship. What happens when couples lose intimate connection? How can they rebuild intimacy in their marriage? I asked J. Parker to help couples navigate those issues in this article. This is part of our Rebuilding Marriage Series. I first read J. Parker when I […]

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